The presence also involves the attitude to be open, percipient and available. Calls and answers are understood as the communication in simultaneous way (BUBER, 1974; LCIO et al., 2008). The scientific dialogue is characterized by the interpretation of the lived deeply intuitivo dialogue, adding the known dialogue. Relation EU-ISSO consists then, that the man allows to interpret, to categorize and to add the knowledge. In it sharing of knowledge is prepared, from subjects appeared of the lived deeply experience (LCIO et al., 2008).

According to Lcio et al., (2008), the scientific fusing intuitiva- encloses the understanding of the moment where if it gave to the meeting between the intuitivo and the scientific one. In this instant, even so the nurse (a) if distancie of the particularitities of the experiences lived deeply in search of a new point of view, keep a proximity with previous phase e, at the same time, he pursues a point of view articulated of the experience that passes to be disclosed in one all coherent one. In accordance with Paterson and Zderard; Lcio et al., (2008) the Humanistic Theory judges the nursing as a form of I dialogue that it involves the human beings that are made use if to relate ones with the others, where in this relationship, the meeting with the other is sincere, intense occurring a privacy degree influencing the involved people. According to Paterson and Zderard (1979); Lcio et al., (2008), to adopt the process to take care of of the Humanistic Theory, is to work with the practical one of nursing practises from them that they involve the nurse and the receiving person of its care, necessarily articulated between itself. However, to define the main idea of the humanistic nursing is not an easy task, therefore it depends on the existenciais and fenomenolgicas experiences of the involved individuals, endowed with values, perceptions, myths and expectations front the experiences.

REVISION DE LITERATURAPreocupado with the quality of the attention to the customer of the health services, in 2001, the Health department initiated the National Program of Humanizao of Assistncia Hospitalar (PNHAH), in the public services of health. The proposal of the PNHAH it includes the physical infrastructure provision in such a way and new technological resources, as the qualification of the human resources for the development of action that values the dimension subjective human being and, present in all act of assistance to the health (10). The current Nursing if comes across with two new challenges. The first one is to follow the technological advance and as it is to enter in the experience of the other, transforming making technician in nursing, in a humanizada art (11). For the society, the UTI means suffering, death, technology and lack of humanismo. The vertiginous technological and scientific advance that facilitated the therapeutical process caused to desumanizadas structures and more distant relationships each time, with the consequent supervaluation of the technology in detriment of the humanizao of the care in nursing (12).

It is important to consider that the familiar accompanying visitor also suffers with the period of hospitalizao, ahead of as much impotence, unreliability, anxiety uncertainties. This makes in them to think about the necessidade of care that this familiar one lacks in the period where a dear being meets hospitalized and in the lack of qualification of the professionals in considering familiar as the subject one of the care, as much how much that one that is hospitalized. Therefore, this care cannot be broken up, be centered in the pathology and technological apparatuses, but seen as a moment of interaction with the nursing team, in order to establish a relation of aid and confidence with the visitors (13). In a study (14) on the signalling of the nurse it enters the papers of familiar visitors and companions of adult-aged, was observed that the companions have of if adapting to the scene of the hospital, that cannot be modified for assuring comfort to it, and that, even so is not a pleasant experience, them assume its roles with resignation, supported for a moral obligation in relation to paciente.3.